One of the most important concepts for a Jewish wife/mother is her part in creating "shalom bayit", peace in the house.
I want to keep it so that I can think about it again. Oh, and about mornings, I think I'll ask the Jedi to simply not turn off his alarm in the morning. It takes me longer to find my way back to consciousness. Music is a nice bridge for that. His "alarm" is simply a radio station that we both like. I fall asleep to soft music, I wake up to joyful music with lyrics. I'll be awake in a timely manner, and I'll be in a good mood. I'll be awake before the Jedi leaves for the day, and I'll have time to shower at my own pace, instead of feeling rushed and behind. Its a win, win situation.