So far, the Jedi is hands down winning the love dare without even trying. Go Jedi :)
I might have a better chance with today. Today is "Love is not rude." I'm pretty sure I get a B+ grade on this category already.
"When a man is driven by love, he intentionally behaves in a way that's more pleasant for his wife to be around. If she desires to love him, she purposefully avoids things that frustrate him or cause him discomfort.
"The bottom line is that genuine love minds its manners.
"Will you be thoughtful and loving enough to discover and avoid the behavior that causes life to be unpleasant for your mate? Will you dare to be delightful?"
The dare is :
"Ask your spouse to tell you three things that cause him or her to be uncomfortable or irritated with you. You must do so without attacking them or justifying your behavior. This is from their perspective only."
And even without asking, I bet I can name three things the Jedi might list... being late, being interrupted, and either not being given time to ponder a response to a question I've just asked him OR having chaos and clutter in the house.
I'll ask him tonight, though I'm not sure how to ask without giving away why am asking.